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female
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30-35,
*hbabycakesxx
writes:Apologies for the longness in advance. This guy that I kind of like (and used to "like" me) asked me to homecoming. Of course I said yes. But what bothers me is that he makes me feel like an option.It may be I'm overreacting but it seemed like everyone was asked so creatively, but he just asked, "Wanna go with me?" I put it off because I assumed he wasn't the type of guy who would do those little quirky things to ask someone to homecoming. But I can't keep making excuses because he sometimes completely ignores me, like today. At lunch I sit with a whole group of my friends, including a girl friend that he used to be interested in. He didn't say hi to me, but instead went straight to the lunch-line where she was standing and pulled her against him. They got lunch, then he sat right across from her and ignored me, who was forced to sit at the other end of the table. He then left when the bell rang, without even acknowledging me who stood right beside him. I mean, sure, we're going to HC as friends and I don't expect him to talk to me all the time but seriously? I get the feeling that if my friend didn't have a boyfriend, he would have asked her to go with him instead. He pays much more attention to her and I admit, I'm a bit jealous and scared because they work together and used to like each other.So, what should I do? HC is coming up in a week for me. I can't just back out.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 October 2010):
 Go to Homecoming and have a great time. You guys aren't in a relationship, just ease up and have some fun. If you don't have a good time then don't accept another date from him if he asks.
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