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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Good evening people!I need some advice here - just like everyone else posting on this website.I've fallen for one of my closest female friends. The rumours were circling around the school were quite rife, so she already /kind of/ knew before I told her.So, I asked her out; told her; what ever this thing is called, and she basically rejected me outright. She approached me a couple of days ago, and said that she could tell that I still liked her, and she said that there was no chance (of anything more).Yet when I was feeling rather down due to some family thing, she was /really/ concerned, a bit more than usual.Okay, so the question. Is there any possible chance I could salvage a /relationship/ out of this, but as I fear (no), what would be the best way to overcome the feelings?Thanks for your help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 The short answer is, no. There is no chance of anything here. Don't push it. It never works.
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reader, Cccc  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 Well she probably enjoys your friendship and values it above a "Fling/Date" which will only complicate things way more.Just be your old self around her and dont be bothered about the rejection to much just be her friend again.
She protected the friendship.
Well ATleast I think soo...
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reader, LLindy87  +, writes (8 October 2010):
 she told you flat out that she didn't want a relationship...unless she's playing super hard to get, i doubt it. You were friends first so the concerned thing could have been because you two are friends and she was trying to be a good friend, especially after having to reject you.
however, there is always a chance. Just give it time, but for now respect her feelings.
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