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writes:So I started dating this girl about a year ago and 3 months in I made the mistake of kissing another woman. I was really drunk and it was a huge mistake. After cheating I realized I really didn't want to be with anyone else because it felt so wrong. I did not tell her until recently. I felt bad and I felt she needed to know if we were going to have a future together. She dumped me instantly and we havent really talked in 4 months. She now has a boyfriend now who lives in Hawaii for military reasons that she has never spoken to in real life. Just webcam and phone calls. What would be the best route into getting myself back into her life. It kills me everyday and it just gets worse. I mean its been like 5 months almost since she dumped me and Im still very hurt and very in love with her, I dream about her every night and my days are spent trying to figure out how to get her back. Oh and also, I know that she wants to be my best friend. What the hell does that mean and is that good or bad? What does it mean when the girl has a boyfriend but wants to be friends with their ex?Hope someone can help me out thanks :)
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reader, Cccc  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 Yea Id say you probably have a good chance...
Id say just go out with her for Coffie or something and then take BABY STEPS from there on.Like make the outings with her really short and never get into the past.Just be nice guy and have a good time and also be Confident.
You have nothing to lose so you can just aswell try.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (8 October 2010):
 well, firstly, you were VERY stupid to tell her about a kiss that meant nothing - hope you have learnt your lesson - sorry, but true.
ok: can you get her back? hmm. not sure. she dropped you so completely. only if you crawl.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (8 October 2010):
 Let her go man, let her go. Time passed long ago for you to move on. She has. That being friends thing is crap, it never works. You'll just be opening yourself for a ton of disappointment if you can't get over this.
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