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Living in fear of in-laws

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Question - (8 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2010)
A female Zimbabwe age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I got married to my husband last year in march and have been living with his father since. At first his father and I had a good relationship but lately he's changed he's a bit rough. I've talked to my husband about it and he has assured me that it's not because I've done anything it's just the way he is. he treats my husband the same sometimes even worse. We're planning on moving out the house but in the time that we're here how can we make things better or what can I do because i don't like living in fear of him. I avoid him so much I can spend a three or more days without speaking to him and he doesn't even mind his son says he prefers it that way because they talk once a week or once a fortnight. it's very hard for me because my parents made a lot of time for us and we loved each other and were open. It hurts me that he is treating us this way. how can we improve relations in the house

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (9 October 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntWell i guess all you can do is sit down and tell your father in law how you feel but at the end of the day its his house so am afraid there is'nt a lot more you can do, this will put a strain on your marriage as this is no way to start a new marriage so get out of your father in laws very soon and rent a place of your own.

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