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Does my boyfriend think I give rubbish hand jobs?

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Question - (8 October 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Right, I was giving my new boyfriend a handjob (the first time I've done it with him) and everytime I got into a rhythm he would grab my hand and change what I was doing, eg. make me go faster or squeeze harder. Does this mean he doesn't like what I was doing??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2010):

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Okay, I feel a lot better for hearing that. Thanks, guys!!

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A female reader, angelalb United States +, writes (9 October 2010):

Guys know what feels good to them. He is guiding you.

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A male reader, slimfish New Zealand +, writes (9 October 2010):

slimfish agony aunttrust me, there is no such thing as a rubbish hand job.

but i think he's telling you what he wants, and you should try to listen and learn.

if you have ever had a guy feel you , then you will know some guys can do it too hard, or not quite what you want.

penis's are very senstitive and you have to be very gentle.

just relax and enjoy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010):

I think he was trying to show you what he likes. Sometimes we tend to take it solely as "I was doing it wrong". So I suggest that you talk to him. Don't be accusatory just say "how do you like me to do it"?

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