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writes:Ok, now with a man i would like to know what's the best thing to really make him happy? And how do i seriously stop myself from arguing and fighting with him? I love him dearly and i want to make this work but i know the arguing pushes him away... Can you guys and girls please give advise. He makes me happy, and theres no one like him. ;-) Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (8 October 2010):
 I would call that less a trust issue and more a controlling/jealousy issue. If you never want him to hang around his friends you'll smother him and drive him away. It is unhealthy to spend every waking minute with one person. Humans are social creatures and as such we need relationships other than our spouse or significant other.
Do you have friends of your own? You should have a girls night when he goes out with his friends.
Why don't you like his friends? Is it just that he isn't spending time with you or are they a bad influence?
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reader, Mimi7682 +, writes (8 October 2010):
Mimi7682 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk i normally start them, I think im having a trust issue here... I love him dearly but it's like he's my bestfriend so i always want to be around him. I dont want him around his friends or anything like that. I just want to focus on more of me and less of him because I feel if i get myself together we eill fall into place...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2010): My advice: don't find fault with everything he does or says. I'm not sure why, but many women seem wholly incapable of doing this
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reader, blondebitch07 +, writes (8 October 2010):
 Yes I agree with dirtball, you'd have to be a little more specific on the situations. && with men, there's not much you can do to make a man happy. I'm in your situation sort of. But yes, who causes the fights, what are they about, how does the end of them usually go? More detail would probably help you get some more responses. (:
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reader, dirtball +, writes (8 October 2010):
We can't give you advice if we don't know why you're arguing or what's causing the fights. Usually lots of arguing and fighting is a sign that you shouldn't be together but without more information all I can say is stop being so argumentative. What is it that you always feel the need to argue about? Is this some sort of compulsion you have?
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