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writes:My husband got a text messages from a female saying," I'm glad you have the same number. free agent?" and another message giving her address. also wrote," free agent?" again. i need to know what does she mean when she saids,"free agent?"
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell here's the thing I didn't ask him. I've asked him about other questionable text and all he does is make excuses. When I check his phone their was no reply. He could have deleted his reply.So if I did check his phone I wouldn't find it. This female has also used a lyric from Alcia Key song. At the end of other text messages some months ago she has put," if you ask me I'm ready." Whats strange about this is this. My husband was in a relationship with her now decease mother for many years before I met my husband. This female is like a daughter to him. He has been in her life since she was a baby. Her mother just recenltly past a few years back. I know how it is to lose a mother. But I don't think this approiate to be sending text to a man that been like a father to you. That was in serious relationship with your mother at one time. I met this female once only because she was working at a carnival at a local park in our area. At that time me and my husband was engaged.We had our two children with us and he introduce us. I was happy to meet her but she was cold to us even him. I thought maybe she was still upset about my husband not being with her mom. But that had been some years before he met me. Out side of that I only seen pics of her when my husband was with her mother. Three days ago after I had seen this text. I made up a story about something I had seen on tv that seem similar to this to get his reaction. His reaction was a normal response to that. He said," he didn't want to talk about that because it was sick!" I don't know if something going on with him and her. Are is she pursuing him. She knows that he is not single. I thought maybe the recent text was to let him know she was availble. My husband is in contact with her off and on. We have been together for years. Not once has he had her by. Even when we live down the street from each other. But he has been to visit her. The night before I seen the text we were watch tv and out of no where. He brings her up and tell me you know she has had a second child. I don't want to think the worse. I pray that their is not something going on. He shows me alot of love he's always buying me nice things.My husband is 40 and I'm 33 I am not much older than this female. Only old enough to be her big sister. He is very good and loving with his kids. We've been through a lot together and he is still passionate about our relationship as a couple and as family. His chacater dosen't seem like he would have a intimate relationship with female that is like his own child that he help watch and help raised. But these texts hs gotten me concerned. Thanks for your previous answers. I want to thank all of you in advance. Can you please give me your observation of this situation and don't hold anything back. I won't be offended. Your help will be surely appreciated.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (9 October 2010):
 She wants to know if he's single.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 I think it means she wants to know if he is single. And if she had to ask twice I suspect he wasn't too clear about it the first time...? What did your husand say when you asked him?
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reader, MsVick +, writes (8 October 2010):
 "free agent" usually means someone that is not married or in a relationship.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (8 October 2010):
 She's asking if he's single. How did he reply?
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