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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I strongly feel you can love more than one guy at the same time, but perhaps you might love one more than the other? I am in a very, very crucial point in my life. I have one many who is desperate for me and the most honest and sincere man a women can find, but we met a little too late as I have been dating a guy for two year now whom plans to propose to me within the next two months (he kinda blew the suprise) ANYWAY. I am very confused and questioning whom I really want anymore. The guy I am currently dating has been in fights with me QUITE often and that's normally for me in a realtionship. I believe it's our tempers colliding together. This other guy and I have TONS in common and is more of what I am REALLY looking for in man in every way. I could go on and on in details, but I want to know what people think out there? I am not being fair to the guy I am with now when I am actually considering someone else at this point. The "sweet" guy even knows I am with another and is still fighting for me after 4 months. The "current" guy is more concerned about his money, and other "physical" possesions in life, but sweet most the time. I DK WHAT TO DO! Whatever I do it will be drastic and that sucks. Perhaps I should just go back to my home town and BE ALONE and see what happens later huh /hahahahaahahahahaha
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2010): People come and go in our lives so we can learn something new from them. Maybe your relationship with your current boyfriend has run its course as ‘dirtball’ says. Or maybe you just have cold-feet all of a sudden because you know now what your boyfriend wants from you and you’re not ready to make that leap yet.
Your issue has nothing to do with the ‘sweet’ other guy at all (because of course there are great people out there in the world, for everyone) but about you and your relationship now. But if your eyes have been opened because of someone new, maybe you do need time to yourself, to think properly about what you want for yourself.
No one is ever going to tell you what to do – it’s your life. So just open up and talk more with your boyfriend I say.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (8 October 2010):
 You have to choose the comfortable known, for the potential of the unknown. You can love more than one person at a time, however in a situation like this, neither one will want to share you.
I honestly think you've made your decision and you want us to back you up. You've listed mostly negatives for "current" guy and mostly positives for "sweet" guy. Hell, the nickname you gave him here is "sweet" while the other guy is just "current." That says a lot about who you think you'd rather be with.
I think it is probable that your current relationship has run its course and you are staying together more out of fear of being alone or because it's known and comfortable rather than because you are actually happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2010): You dont love either of them.
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