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writes:Moderator's Note: Two questions combined.Soo, I have a crush on this one guy at school, and I thinking I'm actually starting to like him. I only have 1 class with him, so I don't see him often. We hang out with different groups. The only thing we have in common are the teachers we have and ethnicity. He knows that I have a crush on him because I'm a pretty blunt girl, and i pretty much just told him.. First of all i did give him hints, but then i found out that he's very clueless about "dating" and such, and so I just told him. I'm only 15 so I can't do much except think about him. I asked him if he'll ever feel the same way. He said that he doesn't know, and it might be a yes, might be a no. I do try talking to him, I try texting him. I don't know what I can do to make him like me. He is athletic so if there's anyone out there that's maybe like him, you can help me? because at this point I'm just lost. He is very hard to deal with, sometimes I can't even stand him, but I always look forward to seeing him everyday, and when I don't see him I miss him. What can I do?... help meee part two:This is still about the same guy on my other question, I think you can see that one under my user name.But anyway,... I just wanted to add something...the thing is that sometimes he treats me so coldly during class... and sometimes I can adjust, but other times I would get sad and angry. When we text, sometimes he can be so nice and sweet, but then at school he's so cold to me and it's like he hates me so much... I don't know what to do!!.. helppppp I had a crush on him last year, I quit because he liked someone. Now, I have a class with him, and I can't help it. He doesn't like anyone, and I really want him to like me... what can I do?...and I'm not too bad of a girl, I'm loyal.. I'm nice...I have AP and honor classes, umm I'm pretty athletic, not as much as him but yeah.. I know I'm not fat, but I'm not one of those really skinny girls, I'm some what buff? if I can put it that way. And I really don't know what I can do!!!And He's smart too so I'm pretty sure that "I'm like out of his league" or anything but then again.. I don't know.. So any advice?
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reader, PiGzzz +, writes (18 October 2010):
PiGzzz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou guys thanks so much!...
ill think more about it..
maybe i should just back off and see what'll happen..
but then again! thank you^^
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reader, fadinglove  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 First of all i know exactly where you are and i also know that it wont get any easier untill you stop threating over what he puts so much.When you say that he's sometimes really sweet and other times like when your at school he's not it makes me wonder if its due to his friends or peer pressure to fit in.You see your self as a nice looking person and thats good but if he can't see that then he is no good for you.As much as it may hurt you now you need to try and get over him.People like that only bring hurt and pain.You deserve someone who treats you well amd loves you for who you are.Be patient and the right guy will come along but you need to drop your love for that doosh of a guy first.good luck 3
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reader, confusedd:( +, writes (9 October 2010):
 read twilight, this totaly sounds like that book!
but seriously he doesnt sound worth you time! hey, if your as nice as your sound then he should be jumping at the change to go out with you, and if hes not then you should hold out for someone that does want to go out with you, you could play hard to get and ignore him and not text him and act like you dont care, that might make him realise how much he likes you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2010): Honey, this is going to sound old school and passe but you might want to try playing it cool. Back off, don't talk to him, don't text. Get interested in someone else. Some guys love being chased but some don't. If he likes you, he'll take notice and ask you what's going on, why haven't you been texting/talking to him?
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