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I'm not sure but I think my friend might be a lesbian?

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Question - (8 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone,

Recently another girl and I have become close friends. I thought it was a little strange at first that we are friends at all as we are from different social groups, but we get along really well. She invited me to go camping with her and we did. We were pretty drunk and she kept asking me weird questions like

"Have you ever been licked out by a girl?"

"Would you ever turn lesbian, like for a close friend?"

and a few other things that I cant exactly remember.

Then, after asking these questions she said "I really feel like kissing someone right now" and looked at me right in the eyes.

We didn't kiss or anything but she lay really close to me so that our faces were almost touching and I could just feel that she wanted to kiss me but we ended up just falling asleep.

The problem is, I think a part of me wanted her to kiss me... I have never felt confused about my sexuality before this.

Do you think she is a lesbian?

Do you think I am?

Thanks everyone

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A female reader, blondebitch07 United States +, writes (8 October 2010):

blondebitch07 agony auntI was so pleased with the ending of your story. (which may sound weird), your bi curious. I'm 16, bi-sexual and I found out kind of the same way your story goes. One of my friends hinted at it, and I wanted to try it, so I did. Turns out that's what I like, can't change it now.

If you want to kiss her, maybe try talking to her about it somehow. Or get drunk (if you'd feel more comfortable) and kiss her, see how she reacts. If you know she wanted it then, she'll want it this time too. && there's your ice breaker.

Hope this helped a little.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (8 October 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntOk maybe she is just as confused as you are, at your ages hormones are running riot and we all get urges to do things, just do what you feel is right at the time, this doesnt make you a lesbian you are just experimenting and it is completely normal, so dont be worrying if you are a lesbian or straight just take things as it comes and in a few years you will no for sure if it was just hormones or that you actually prefer girls either way there is nothing wrong. So just go with your instinct and just do whatever you feel like you want.

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