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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:So my girlfriend left me and in a few days she started dating a guy she used to date and it's been heartbreaking. I feel like she used me as a rebound or just plain used me. I knew for a fact that I wanted to marry her and I loved her with all my heart and I would always tell her. I knew that she loved me as well and she would always tell me. I talked to her a few days after she started dating this new guy and she told me that she likes him a lot, that really hurt me more then I can imagine. Is there any chance that she'll come back to me? I just can't bear the thought of not having her in my future. She's been the only girl where I can actually say to myself that she's the one. Reply to this Question
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reader, breath_in +, writes (8 October 2010):
 I've been where your at and I've been where shes at
and i'm telling you with all honesty that i know you love her i know you care and i know it feels so right but if its meant to be then its meant to be if your certain shes the one she will come back and you will both be laughing about this small minor set back along the road but sometimes you have to date other people in order to realize what your really want and who you really want.
think of this as a time to reflect on what you really want ? its not the end of the world remember that its just the start of a new beginning for you .
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (8 October 2010):
 If you feel she used you why do you want her back ? Do you want to be used again ?
You love her , I get you- but what about loving yourself a bit more - enough to not allow users into your life ?
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