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writes:right now things are going alright my grades are pretty good I am in great shape getting pretty cut and have many friends. the only thing I don't have is a girlfriend and thats what's on my mind most of the time. My question is how can I get girls Im attracted to, too hang out with me after school and go out on dates. Im getting more confident and starting to show it and Im pretty chill. I see these girls during school and will say high go to there sporting events and cheer them on so its not like I avoid them or don't communicate with them.I got in a conversation about cars with one of my bro's and I heard this guy say at a car show he would trade his girlfriend for this Lamborghini this was a 425 thousand dollar car so some people agreed with him. my friend said would I trade this girl I like for the car and I said "I would trade this car for her" my friend thought I was crazy but to me she is worth it, even if it was just to go out on a date. we are friends but there is no chance of anything more than that and it hurts. because of this fact that I will never be anything more to her than a friend I started to write and I have 26 pages on a word document saved as "Im sorry". another thing I've done is read some quotes and poems. my favorite is this one -"I wish she would see meSee me for who I am Notice my thoughts Scaped across the pages Winking blinking Typing solemn noise My pain of thinking of her She is my every thought In my every mood I want her to notice me Talk to me Hear me Feel my voice around her Miss me when I am gone I want nothing more then to settle in her mind At night To have her dream of me Wonder about me What if I do these things for her Would she do them for me Is it wrong for me to want her like this Could it be I am just Overwhelmed by her Cause I fear her Could care less About me So I savor the sadness On my face As the salt tear down And I know im never going to be to her What she is to me She will never feel me Like I feel her Already I can say That she means more to me Then I to her And yet I still want more More of her But I cant have what it is I want Cause she will never notice me Over and over again I play the tune in my head Hoping that someday I will forget Forget how much she means to me A muse with more than just eyes More than just a body More than just words Someone I could love forever But But But I know that can never be Cause she does not feel for me What I feel for her And so I sit in the dark Thinking Waiting Hoping One day Maybe But I know not Cause she doesn’t see me At all She doesn’t see me Looking at her Reading her Listening to her Wanting her Like she doesn’t want me And it hurts To know what I belive could be So to me I will forever just be Someone else Of no importance to her She forced smiles And the out of pity talks I know she felt bad Because of my situation She pretended to have interest But really there’s nothing there but emptiness So I keep writing alone in the dark Knowing that I will never have what I want And she will never notice me The way I notice her AND IT HURTS"I didn't write this and don't know who did so Im not trying to take anyone's work I just think this poem got me through some ruff times.Thanks for reading and your help
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (9 October 2010):
 I dare you to go up to a girl and ask her out. just do it and see what happens :)
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