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Best friend dilemma

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Question - (8 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *mheretohelp writes:

Hi :)

I don't know if I'm in the right or the wrong here..

My best friends have always been my best friends since nursery, all through primary and now in the academy. They've made new friends and I too have made new friends but we've all somehow managed to stay together as a group. I made a new friend and welcomed her into the group and soon enough my friends began to bond with her and we were all best friends for a whole year. Until one of my bestfriends fell out with her and all my other best friends fell out with her except me because she hadn't done anything wrong and in my opinion my best friends were in the wrong! Now my new bestfriend is with another group and I'm slightly every day wanting to go with her and leave my bestfriends but I've known then for over 10 years and I feel soo bad leaving them when I see them everyday. But I know we all have to move on someday and I really want to let this new bestfriend I know that I'll stick by her and she wasnt just used by me and my friends because when we were all together it was really fun! I've tried talking to my best friends about her and asking if they'd make up with her but they wont and now my new best friend has gone into a new group I dont think she will want to come back to mine :(

Hope you can help

p.s sorry for repeating best friends and new bestfriends over and over again LOL. Its just that I dont want to name names!

Best friends= the ones I've had since nursery

new best friend= the one i welcomed into the group in the academy!

just incase you get stuck!!!

x

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A female reader, bella.. United States +, writes (9 October 2010):

bella.. agony auntto tell you, the truth and i dont know if im gana help enough...till this point im not believing on friendship..my bestfriend well the one who said was my bestfriend hasnt talk to me for 4months, i love her alot but shes mad or something i guess she doesnt want to talk to me no more...i dont know if wait for her or just move on...i would say you should dececide for the friend you known for years.. also to not make none of them feel bad.. friends go and come.. think about your problems over n over till you get a good solution...n fallow your heart..:)

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