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writes:I recently saw my boyfriend watching porn, he does a few times a week he didn't know that I knew, it bothered me but I decided to ask him if we can watch together, he of course is all for it, the problem is I'm not quit sure how to act, I mean I love sex but it'll just be weird, we have a good sex life . I guess I Just dont get why he watches it when he knows I'm willing anytime should I even be worried ?
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reader, don'tgetit +, writes (11 October 2010):
don'tgetit is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice, we both loved it it will be something we do more often.
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reader, Cupid Boy  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 If it makes you feel nervous and weird, why did you ask to watch it with him? He may be for it but it's all your idea. Don't ask to do something you really don't want to.
When watching, be more or less natural and don't pretend to love what you're seeing if you really don't, even though it might please him. (Although if you're totally disgusted, maybe keep that mostly to yourself and at the end just say it was interesting but not really your thing.)
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reader, dirtball +, writes (8 October 2010):
 Why will it be weird? It might be a turn on for both of you. My guess is that with very little time in you two won't be watching the screen.
He may be watching it for different reasons. Ideas for things you two can do, because he's horny, to get in the mood, to masturbate, it's hard to say. Ask him. Let him know you don't mind, but that you're curious. Men tend to open up if they don't feel the need to be defensive.
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