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writes:Have i mis understood or do i simply walk away?Last night i told my girlfriend of my paranoid jealousy and told her i didn't want her to go to skegness on the 80's weekend with her sister. She told me she would help me and stand by me and support me through councelling. I assured her that i loved her and really appreciated her support. Her sister hadn't spoke to her for 6 months before she was asked to go to skegness because all her mates had dropped out and she couldn't go alone. Another friend had come forward to go since which meant that 3 of them were going and her sister would not be let down. She hates her sister in a 2 faced way. She has never said a good word for her in 5 yrs and her sister has only associated with her for a month at a time totalling about 12 months on and off in 5yrs. She always says that she is better off without her sister in her life and how her sister always dislikes her boyfriends and messes up every relationship she has ever had. My Girlfriend although she said she would stand by me and support me and doesen't care what her family think has actually gone to skegness with her sister. I told her last night that i wouldn't be speak to her again if she went. If she supported me should she have gone. Do i now walk away knowing that her love for me is as 2 faced as her love for her family.? please help!!!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (8 October 2010):
 Ok am sorry but you are all wrong here, at the end of the day its sisters and sisters do fight and argue but she is still her sister and they are blood related and therefore have this bond. So deep down no matter how much they appear to hate each other they love each other deep down, as for her helping you overcome your issues good for her is sounds like she is a good girlfriend for standing by you, you are on the right path to get help by going to councelling well done, but am afraid you have to do this on your own, your girlfriend has a life to lead to and its very selfish of you to threating her that you arent going to speak to her if she goes away with her sister for the weekend, am sorry but you cant do that to her, she has her own life as well outside of your relationship and you need to do the work yourself to overcome your problems, but threatning your girlfriend like this is only going to push her away and you are going to lose her in the end up.
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