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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hello i just met this guys recently at a friends party and he thought i was cute and i thought he was cute as well. so then the week after that it was his birthday so i sent him a message saying happy birthday, i dont know if you remember me but i just wanted to wish you happy birthday. so he then wrote back to me saying how could i not remember your the only one that caught my attention. then i went to the movies with him and his cousin and it was a little awkard.so i then come to figure out that he is in a gang and has had a rough childhood. what conversation can i give to him so that he could be interest and open up a little?? Im just trying to find a way to get into his head and see why he is the way he is.At the same time invite him to come to church so he could see that it is not so bad after all. Plus i dated a guy along time ago that was in gangs and those things but with time and care/love i took him out of gangs. so i was wondering if it would be easy to take this guy out of that.He is a very tough guy all hardcore and what not.But i know deep inside he is sweet and caring also funny,and simply a wonderful person.I just want to see that side come out more often.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 Ok well start slowely if you start asking him questions and trying to get in to his head he is just going to slowly push you away. How do you mean gangs? like what do these gangs do that is so wrong? Just get him to trust you by being there for him and through time he will open up to you hopefully on his own accord. Dont invite him to church its up to him what religion he choses to follow or what he does and doesnt believe in.
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