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writes:Help i need advice asap please :/Hi well my problem is me i and the way i treat my guy friends.I am 18 and have yet to have my first boyfriend,but i have a bunch of guy friends and well it has been causing some drama in our tight group.My main problem is that i start getting closer to my guy friends and i really start to like them and then i don't know what happens??? i get close to them and once i get to know them i start to get less interested and the spark is gone.:/ this has happened more than once i don't know what to do?? maybe there just not for me but it's caused some drama and it's really unintentional i feel bad because i don't want to hurt or loss me guy friends ,or want them to think i am starting drama. Advice pleaseeee
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondirtball by get close i mean get to really know them ,like talking everyday and stuff like that .I just feel like i get the attention and move on but this has happened with other guys as well not just my friends i don't know why i do this ?:/ its like i get bored or don't want to settle but i am really not sure.
Thanks tasteofindia and dirtball you for the advice :)
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 October 2010):
 I agree whole-heartedly with Dirtball. It will be such a relief to you and your group of guys if you start dating guys beyond them. That way you keep your friends and relationships separate and don't end up hurting a lot of people and friendships. Good luck!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (8 October 2010):
 Get close to them how? I would recommend seeking a boyfriend outside your tight friend circle. That way you stand a much smaller chance of alienating those friendships.
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