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writes:im women from philliphines, 23 years old,im chatting a guy from georgia, we know each other for a year in chat, and i fall inlove with him...he always teling me that he love me..what is the posible sign that he really love me? how can i know that he is serious with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (22 October 2010):
 Online relationships can be very dangerous. You may think you know him, but you can't truly get to know somebody until it is in person.
I'm not saying he's lying to you. He may believe he loves you, just as you believe you love him. But the word love should never be used until you have a chance to spend some time with that person and get to know them on a close, personal level. Everybody has good things and bad things about themselves. In a relationship you don't love every single possible aspect about a person.... you LEARN to love over time. Right now, with an online relationship, each of you are only projecting what you want to the other person. So therefore, each of you are not seeing everything there is to be seen about the other person.
So, to answer your question... there is no possible way to tell if there is love between you two until you meet and spend some time together. And IF you two decide to meet, be VERY careful. Take precautions to protect yourself. Meet in a public place, preferably someplace neutral. If he visits you, that is better. There are many many scammers out there that will go to great lengths to get things. I'm not saying this man is one of those, but just be careful.
This doesn't exactly apply to you, but it's worth taking a few minutes to read. It's an article I wrote based on experiences and research:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-you-need-to-know-about-online-dating.html
Good luck.
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