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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (23 October 2010):
 If she tries to open up to you, give her your full attention and NEVER make her feel as though her problems are a nuisance! When she is unhappy, make it a priority to ensure that you can put a smile on her face. If she cries about something, drop whatever it is you are doing and hold her and comfort her.
Just a few examples of things you should do to ensure she feels important to you. But I think the fact that you bothered to seek advice on this subject shows she already is your top priority which means, she will probably see it later on anyway.
I hope that helps.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (23 October 2010):
 Its much easier to make her feel like she's your top priority if you've just started dating, if you've been dating a while its much harder as there may be specific past events she remembers that make her think otherwise...
How long have you been dating?
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reader, hazy  +, writes (23 October 2010):
1. tell her what she means to you- there is nothing that makes a girl feel more wanted than when her man tells her, we know you do, but we still need to hear it.
2. if you tease or joke, say something nice after- sometimes if you tease us too much we start beleiving what you are teasing us about and most if us tend to become really upset. if you say something nice or compliment us seriously after it makes it easier to forget the bad stuff.
3. when you come home/first see her kiss/hug her- it is so nice to have your guy pay attention to you when he gets home
4. ask her how her day was- even if you don't really care what happened while she was at work ask, it makes her feel like you care about stuff that is important to her
5. when she is upset ask her why- women may tell you not to worry about it or that she's fine. if she does tell her you're around to listen if she changes her mind. if she does tell you listen, and try to give advice even if you think she is upset for no reason.
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