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writes:im in a relationship with a great guy. now he has become abusive. we have been together almost 3 years. i found out he was cheating on me has been with more than 7 other women besides me. i forgave him the first time because he apologised. he claims that these women give him money which supports me! and that i should be grateful for the fact that he is robbing women to support me! he says all sorts of dirty things about me to this women. i hacked his fb n saw all ssorts of things.he wont let me go out or have frens evn tho we dont live together always telling me how slow n stupid i am and all sort of things that really hurt my feelings. he has insulted me about every part of my anatomy. the other nite i stayed over n i did a really stupid thing i called one of his women wen i was next to him n told her to stop calling. he told me that she performed better than me in every way and i just snapped. i slapped him. i noe is shudnt have but usually its me that gets tossed aroun n choked but i just freaked out. he started kicking me n slapping me n pushing me down. we started screaming at each other n i cuffed me in my face. some of the neighbours came n knocked on the door n he opened the door n dragged me out naked in front them n told me to leave. i had to get a lift home from one of his more understanding neighbours.he gave me a black eye yet i still have feelings for him. am i crazy? he puts me down in every possible way.he maintains its my fault for being nosy. that if i wasnt sneaking around i wouldnt have found out about the other ones n im d only one who matters becuz he robs them to support me. i am so confused n so depressed because i feel like a horrible person. i feel like all the things he has called me, selfish, nosy, ungrateful a liar. i dont ask him for anything n i dont care about the money. i would take him with or without a pocket with money becuz he use to make me happy. am i really selfish because i rather him not sleep with other women to 'support' me? it hurts to know those women were in the same bed as me n it hurts wen he calls me names. i got tested the other day becuz i was so scared that he had given me something. what am i doing wrong? i says i nevr trusted him but i did and look what happened.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni just wanted to know if i was really being ungrateful by not wanting him to sleep with women for money. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): Why are you with this guy? This is an oh so stereo-typical abusive relationship.
Leave him and start afresh with someone new.
No boyfriend should tell you you can't have friends whether or not you live together, that's not his call.
If he loved you even one iota he wouldn't call you names or hit you AT ALL.
What is more why does he have to sleep with other women and steal from them to "support you". Does he buy you presents? feed you? give you money to spend as you will? Doubt it and what is more if he is stealing from them it is illegal, do you really want to rely on dishonest "earnings"?
Bottom line is honey, get out and do it fast, if he has no problem beating the c**p out of you and tossing you naked into the street then there's no telling where he'll draw the line.
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