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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi there..I basically have 2 queries..1. I am fed up of my father who just doesnt understand me ever and whenever i try to do so, he takes everything in a wrong manner and verbally abuses me each time in front of others. Then i feel like going out of this hell but they dont even let me do that. I dont have my mother. Feel all alone and other family members scold me, thinks i am wrong. What can i do? I am a 19 yrs old girl and suffering in my home continuously. Pls help me to cope up with it. 2. I've a bf who behaves strange or i feel so, i dont know. Whenever he talks, flirts or texts to another girl, i get jealous. But when i do the same, he just enjoys with me as if its fine and i never found him getting jealous. Sometimes i feel..i am over reacting may be.! But i think i need help with this 1 too.. Because i think he doesnt love me but he says he loves me and its been 2 yrs but still i cant make out. Should i trust him and continue or not.? I had a fight with him yesterday over the same topic and i quit texting him back while he still was texting me saying he loves me. I really dont feel like trusting him, dont know why.! Pls help.Thanks for your valuable time. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): Thanx Ann..:)
actually, my mother had died when i was small. From then, my father behaves in this manner. He doesnt talk to me properly & when i try to talk, it leads to an argument. Consequently, he gets a chance to abuse me. It hurts me. He fights on small small things.
And, i think u r right, i feel isolated..may be thats why..asking for more attention from my bf. He is so caring but stil i feel deprived of love. No one loves me like my mom did.. This frustrates and hurts me inside. What to start and from where.? I just dont know. People say i am very childish, innocent..but i really dont know what to do. Any kind of suggestions please? I really need them badly..
Thanku.
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