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writes:Alright, so.I honestly think that I am in love with my teacher. He is so perfect to me in everyway. I am a freshman student as of now, and he is my Spanish teacher. I am 15 years old and he is 30. It is a 15 year difference, but I can care less about age. The bottom line is that I am in love. Everyone tells me to just give up and that I'm never going to have a chance, but giving up on someone you love is hard! I talk to him as much as I can, and I am as friendly as I can be to him. He is always smiling and laughing with all the students. He has a great sense of humor, he is caring, nice, very cute, and also an amazing teacher. I have this urge to tell him that I really like him, but I don't want any akwardness between us. Can you help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): Don't tell him. If you do and he doesn't have the same feeling torwards you then you will feel embarassed. I'm a junior in high school. I've had a crush on my 6th grade teacher back in middle school. I'm willing to wait till I'm 18 and graduated. No longer a student. It's been 5 years I still have feelings for him and I am going to tell him next year because I still see him and he is just an amazing guy all around. So just wait because you don't want to ruin your friendly relationship you have with him now.
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reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX  +, writes (23 October 2010):
 I think that it would be for the best if you didn't tell him because it could cost him his job, and if you really do love him (i'm not going to judge you and say that it's only a crush) then you would put his feelings and career first, especially if he's married or has kids. And this may just be a passing urge to tell him, but deep down you may not really want to. Think about it for a while. Do you really have feelings for him or do you just admire him and want someone your own age with the qualities that he posesses? Or maybe you see him as a father figure if you do not have a good relationship with your own.
However, if you still feel the same about him when you are leaving school and he is not married or has a girlfriend, then you could consider telling him then- like visiting back after a month or so to see him. I told my teacher that i had feelings for her after i left yr11 as i really truely with my whole heart felt (and do still feel) as if i love her eventhough i have a boyfriend now. you can read my story here. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/too-young.html
Good Luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): My only advice is no. Don't tell him you like him and Im telling you from great experience. I just have my heartbroke, and it still hurts thinking about it and the wonderful memories. You might think you like him keep these feelings to yourself, till graduation.
Think about him.
His job, he mostly wouldn't risk his job. It's normal to have these feelings for him in away, but don't act on it.
Just enjoy the limited time you have with him the best you can.
You don't have to take my advice if you dont want to. =)
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