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writes:Okay basically, there's a guy at work that I like. The thing is, I work at a sports stadium so if I ever want to see him then it's on match days. But the stadium is so big that I hardly do get to see him. I know what bar he works in (a lil bit of stalking investigation) but I don't work at the same bar and for me to just hang around the one he worked in would be so obvious and would also mean that the boss in MY bar wouldn't be happy if I was late for always hanging around and not getting straight to work. I know his name but I can't find him on facebook because if I could I would add him and start talking to him there. But really what I want is for him to ask for my number (or even facebook) without me blurting out that I like him. I have a slight feeling he may like me because he always makes the effort to say hi and the few times I did work with him, he was being really touchy feely even though we barely know eachother.But how do I catch the attention of someone I hardly even see? And how do I make him want to talk to me OUTSIDE of work?
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reader, Bee4ever  +, writes (22 October 2010):
He sounds like he's a bit shy. If he makes the effort to smile and be touchy feely then there is some interest on his part. He prob doesn't like over aggressive girls so what I would do is wait to "bump into him" next time and after exchanging hello's I would say something like "we can't keep meeting like this!" or some other joke to break the ice then I would casually ask "hey btw are you on Facebook? we never get to chat here since we're both so busy and my boss has a motion detector on me" basically be witty and he will see you as someone to get to know not some weird stalker type. Acting casual won't betray your feelings and if he's not on fb hopefully he will get the hint that you want to see more of him!
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