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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi, so my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4 years now. we started dating in high school, and now we're both 21 and seniors in college. went through the usual high school story of us friends first and then it grew blah blah blah..after a little less than a year we finally had sex, and she was a virgin before that. fast forward 4 years and we're having a blast, she's really outgoing and likes to adventure, i love the girl and dont see an end in sight. sexually, not much has changed. always the same basic positions and routine. when we're not having sex, she always sort of shys away when getting dressed and just seems a little uncomfortable with the idea, which i can't understand. she's a sexy short blond with a great body and chest, and a cute face, a total 10, and i know because my friends have told me before how lucky i am, which im not disputing.. she is ridiculously out of touch with her own sexual impulses that at times ive thought she just doesn't have any. i've seen glimpses of a really sexual side to her, but they dont stay around for too long. she also seems to have a problem verbalizing sexual acts and desires also, and ends up saying the wrong things and can kill the moodi'm a guy, and like most guys, especially those who are 21, we just want to have some crazy wild sex and to do the things we've been dreaming of since we were 10 years old. i know what i want to do, but convincing her is rough. im lucky enough that i have someone who is amazing and fun outside of the bedroom, now if i can just get her more comfortable in the bedroomso the big question thats out there a million times, how can i crack into that head of hers and get her to really open up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): She should be totally comfortable with you by now. She has self esteem issues is what it looks like. Once she gets comfortable with her beauty she will be more open
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