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writes:My bf and I have been dating for a few months, he lives at home with his dad. We spend a lot of time at his house and his dad is really nice. The other night we were there we wnet to in his room just to hang out and we started kissing this kept going and we ended uo having sex while his dad was in he living room watching tv. Afterwards he laughed and said "well I didnt realize you were that naughty." then the next day he made a joke about me "needing" sex so much I coudlnt wait until we were alone. Why would he say these things. I did it becuse I felt comfortable with him bot because I'm a whore. DO you think he lost respect for me? Shoudl I tell him how I feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): This does not make you a slut. Tell your BF to grow up or he won't be getting any in future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): No slut. But you are so daring.
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reader, loulou95 +, writes (22 October 2010):
im sure he lost respect for u....srry truth...but ur no slut
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): I dont think it makes you a slut..it is just one of those things you do as a youth..it was only an adventure..
I dont think your boyfriend meant those things that he said..
But if he did, I would say he is immature..or why did he agree to do it at all...
you are no slut girl
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reader, Sincair  +, writes (22 October 2010):
If you had sex in front of his father you are a whore and he will have lost respect for you. No matter how comfortable you feel with him he is still your boyfriends father. This is not normal behaviour and you need help or more than one boyfriend. Be real and don't expect respect where it's not due.
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reader, larry00789  +, writes (22 October 2010):
This remind me one of my incident. when i had sex with my gf in a train toilet, when we are going for a school trip and whole of our school mates were in the train...
so lets come to your situation . honey sex is something that should be with someone special and offcourse u both should enjoy it. And slut means someone who is trusty for sex with any guy.
And i guess you doesnot fall in the defination of a slut, Am i right.
Moreover of that's your inner feeling too. If u feel having sex with a guy when his father's at home will make u slut. simply just don't do it.
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reader, larry00789 +, writes (22 October 2010):
This remind me one of my incident. when i had sex with my gf in a train toilet, when we are going for a school trip and whole of our school mates were in the train...
so lets come to your situation . honey sex is something that should be with someone special and offcourse u both should enjoy it. And slut means someone who is trusty for sex with any guy.
And i guess you doesnot fall in the defination of a slut, Am i right.
Moreover of that's your inner feeling too. If u feel having sex with a guy when his father's at home will make u slut. simply just don't do it.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (22 October 2010):
 Pretty ballsy of you to have sex with your boyfriend while his dad was home. Personally, I couldn't do it because I'm afraid he would hear my moans and consistent creaking of the bed...
It's possible his references to you being a nympho were a joke, his son is a man now..I'm sure he was cheering his son on in the living room. Or it's possible he was joking but otherwise meant couldn't it wait till he wasn't at home. No, I wouldn't bring it up..just leave the subject alone. And to avoid him saying anymore comments to you, I would not have sex when his father is home watching football in the living room.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): I don't think it makes you a slut, but you were definitely adventurous by having sex with his father home! However, keep in mind that your boyfriend also had sex with you while his father was home. Plus, it's not like your father was watching you two. It was a private moment that you had with your boyfriend.
Talk to him and tell him that his words made you feel bad about what you did and that you are worried what he thinks of you now. Explain to him why you had sex with him there – that you were comfortable with him.
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