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writes:Hello, im still a virgin and im a 19 year old male and i masturbate with a fleshlight because i havent found the right girl yet and im bored using my hand. i dont masturbate a lot but i just have 2 questions. 1. Should i ever tell my next girlfriend that i have used a fleshlight? or do you think i should just keep it to myself. 2. a fleshlight care question. When im done masturbating usually after i clean out my fleshlight, i let it sit on the counter in my bathroom to let it sit and dry while i take a shower (my shower has a slide door) My question is because im taking a shower will the heat or steam damage the fleshlight? while in the bathroom when my shower is on and it is just drying over on my bathroom counter which is dry. thanks
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (22 October 2010):
 I'd just keep it to yourself.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (22 October 2010):
 I wouldn't mention it early in the relationship but later on it would be fine to mention. Maybe she has some vibrators and you can say you have a toy too which most guys don't have. She might actually like the idea but you would have to jugge what type of girl she is.
I don't think the shower or the steam would do any damage to the thing. Check the package or search it online because alot of toys now are even dishwasher safe so the shower would be no problem at all.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (22 October 2010):
 I'd say chuck the damn thing out... it'll free up time and energy that you can use to find a girlfriend.
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (22 October 2010):
 Honestly, I found out my boyfriend had one of those(never knew they existed before) and I thought it was funny, and a little sad :) But then after thinking about it, I realised it's absolutly no different to me or any other woman using a vibrator. More power to you! If it spices up your personal sex life, why the heck not?
So for telling a potential girlfriend, I wouldn't even worry about it. When you're in the early stages of a relationship there is no need for you to tell her, and risk her judging you because of it. You can always tell her later on if a related subject comes up in convo, but it's entirly up to you. It's your privite business how and what you masturbate with. If she's really into you, she won't think less of you for it, she may even think it's sexy or cute that you have one. Depends on the girl.
As for steam damaging it, try searching on an adult website. Try lovehoney.com, they have really good reviews of their products and should have the answer you're looking for. Or perhaps one of the guys from this site could shead more light.
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