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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Hello, Though this site seems to mainly serve a slightly older community, I've a question on high school relationships. What justifies pursuing a girl? As a mere sophomore, I've no real experience with dating. I would like very much to find myself in a relationship, but there are no girls whom I am head over heals for as of late. I've my suspicions as to those who may like me, and I am more than open to date different sorts of girls to 'test the waters', if you will, but does this justify inviting them on a date? Would this sort of action raise false hopes on their part before anything had the chance to materialize? I also do not want to invite a girl on some excursion only to be informed that they haven't the slitest interest in me. (This sort of circumstance has ruined friendships in the past for me; it creates a sort of awkward barrier that prevents normal conversation). And while we're on the subject, where can one meet more people? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (22 October 2010):
You have to just jump in Buddy, sink or swim. Asking girls out gets easier the more you do it. As far as meeting people, join all the clubs that interest you at school, look into volunteer activities in your community, just stay out there very visible. Most important, have fun.
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