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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been in a relationship for 6 years, with a man I love and respect. It has been bliss, with very few real "fights". We've always had excellent communication, and have always able to reach compromises on issues we disagreed on. We were so comfortable in our relationship that we began planning a future together, and purchased a home. Everything was wonderful, until his troublesome brother needed a place to stay, and we agreed to allow him to move in with us. In the 4 months since he's been here, he's been nothing but trouble, and my relationship has fallen apart. We've actually broken up. In his world, family comes first. I am so distraught that a seemingly solid relationship failed so easily. I'm still in shock. What do I do now? I consider myself a reasonable, intelligent woman, but I am honestly at a loss right now!
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (23 October 2010):
try to talk this issue agian with you bf
dont lose this relationship
because it seems a very sucessfull one ,
try to find options with your bf
because i am sure he is suffering as much as you are..
why dont you both try to consult someone you both trust
because consuling trusty people works most of the times
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