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writes:I'm a 15 year old female, and I'm bi. At the moment I am really confused about how I feel. There is this girl who I developed very strong feelings for, and she knows. I think I may be falling for her, but I don't think she likes me. She is a really touchy person with everyone. When we hang out though she is constantly hugging me or touching me. A week or two ago I stayed the night at her house. We were watching t.v and she asked me to lay down next to her on the couch. Then she let me rest my head on her arm. She said "This is weird. It looks like we are going out or something" but she laughed about it. She didn't ask me to move though. But then I moved to the other side of the couch, and a few moments later she got up and layed on top of me. After that we went up to her room and I was talking about cuddling (I don't remember) why) and she asked me to teach her how to cuddle, so I did. A couple times she put her arms around me and would just hug me for a while. I then left her house, and on the same day, a few hours later, she asked me to come over again to help her study. I went over and we were just hanging around (barely studying) she was messing with me and got really close to me, like an inch away from my face, and acted like she was going to kiss me.She then moved her face and kissed my forehead. Well, yesterday night we were talking and she said to me "Someday you will find the right person" and I said "I've heard that 1000 times" then she said "(my name) ...if i liked girls...I would be in love with you" and then I said "I wish you liked girls then" and she said "me too". Thats the story so far...I'm so confused. Could she maybe have secret feelings for me but just not know it yet or what? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (23 October 2010):
 Sounds more intimate than any female friendships I know of- I'd venture that shes certainly curious... :)
Goodluck!
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (23 October 2010):
 Aw honey..
I was in a same kind of situation as you are in when I was a little older than you. We ended up together for a year!
It sounds like she could be interested in you but is afraid of rejection or what will happen if anything happens! Which is totally natural!
If you like this girl, go for it! It might be hard telling her through speech, the next time you two are alone together, like in the situations you are describing, give her a soft kiss on the cheek then the lips. Or maybe just start holding her hand first. Cheesy I know, but you have to start somewhere!
Good luck and let us know how it goes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): Hi, this is really sweet! Im kind of in the same situation but with my 32 years old recruitment officer! Go for it girl.. Whatever makes you happy! She seems interested xxxx
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