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anonymous
writes:I met a guy on a dating site nearly a month ago and we met two nights after our first chat and it went well. The second night he cooked for me and that was superb. The third night I saw him, we both said it was lovely and going well and we're both glad we met. Second week we went away for my friends wedding and to a theme park and it was fantastic. Third week, I saw him once, he came to mine because he wanted to meet my daughter and it went again, really well. I receive an email from the dating site to say i'd got an email from an admirer so i logged on to reply saying i'm dating, and i saw my date online (i confronted him and he said he's just chatting and for me not to stress as he's only talking, not looking for dates) I've not seen him since but every morning he will text me to say good morning and i hope ur having a great day but he's not made any advances about meeting up until yesterday when i suggested going to the cinema - he said it sounded like a good idea and so we're going out tomorrow. Trouble is, i dont know by confronting him about the dating site (his membership ends at the end of the month), has damaged what we had. He hardly calls, but i get a text each morning and each afternoon. What is going on and why would he not ask to see me - was it too full on, too soon?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): Maybe most guys are there for fun but wont get responses by saying it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): If you hadn't talked about being exclusive, then why can't he maintain a profile on a dating site? After less than a month, maybe he didn't feel ready to commit, although he had been having fun spending time with you.
Are you making any effort, other than texts, to respond to him?
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