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Younger guys just don't have what I want!

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Question - (22 October 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 26 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *mCharlotte writes:

I'm 19 years old.I'm only attracted to older guys,I'd say guys i find attractive are always between the ages of 25-40 is this normal? Because i feel like this isn't normal and im weird.

I never have and never will be attracted to guys younger or my age they just lack something i crave and i can't quite put my finger on it but younger guys don't have what i want

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A female reader, ImCharlotte United Kingdom +, writes (26 October 2010):

ImCharlotte is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you very much to all who took the time to answer my question,I realise i should feel comfortable with the way i feel x

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A female reader, maverick494 United States +, writes (25 October 2010):

To add to the other answerers there is just one thing you need to watch out for: manipulation. Older guys have more life experience, no matter how you look at it. Some of them are very cunning when it comes to getting what they want and are more subtle than guys your age.

Aside from that, have fun! You're not weirder than any of us, let me tell you ;-)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010):

Very normal. In fact, Im attracted to both older and younger women lol. I think you seek maturity and security and stability and usually only older men can provide that. Totally normal good luck with things :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010):

I think you are completely normal, different people want different things. I have always been more attracted to older guys too, guys my own age have always seemed too immature, and I haven't had a sense of stability with them. Everyone is different. You are not weird, you're fine as you are.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2010):

I'm 22, and to be honest I've found that girls my own age don't really do much for me, so my girlfriend is older. I'm having a great time, and I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I don't think there's anything wrong with you either. You'll probably find older guys offer you a sense of maturity younger guys don't.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010):

There are plenty of older men saying "women my age just don't have what I want! I wanna date younger women!" It's not that different. It's just animal attraction, no more no less.

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