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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together about 10months. We've made plans in the next 5 years to live together and eventually get married. But I can't help but feel that time won't come. One time when we broke up it was for another girl he started to like. They didnt last a week but now 6 months later I got him to tell me that he still likes her and she loves him. It bothers me because they spend so much time together and they like eachother, its always on my mind. The girl and I have been friends for a long time. I of course got mad that she would go after my boyfriend knowing he was with me at the time. But we're friends again since theres nothing I can do to stop it. I just want to know if I should keep this relationship going. I feel so ignored by him, and she gets all the attention, if I talk to him about it, he gets mad and says that i'm trying to tell him to get rid of her when thats not the case. Help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): hiii i am also facing the same problem but the girl is not that close to me and he did'nt openly admit he likes her i'm a lot tensed and my mind does'nt leave him friends if anybody else finds an answer other than break up please put it up for me
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): Get a clue!!!!
He is immature and using you totally, or is in too much of a comfort zone to change things. Change them for him. It kinda isn't your friends fault if he likes her, BUT, she should not ever date him if she is a loyal friend. Just let him be, and let him go and grow up and figure out things on his own. You deserve better and you deserve a guy who thinks your the best thing ever that happened to him. Be strong n' move on my dear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys, and we talked today and we broke it off he's with the other girl now I don't want anything to do with him or her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): WHAT? I would be so fast out the door if my bf had a close girlfriend who he openly admitted to being attracted to/liking that you wouldn't even see me leave.
Seriously, I just want to shake you and tell you that this ind of doormat behaviour is going to give you a lot fo trouble in the future. Don't let this guy AND this girl take this piss like this. Your boyfriend shouldn't be telling you that he likes another woman and expecting you to be okay with it and your so called friend should not be going after your boyfriend. You should realise that BOTH of them are quite low value people and that having them around in your life is not enriching it or providing of any value to you. Get rid of them. Its only a matter of time before your bf leaves you for this girl.
Kick his ass to the curb, and hers whilst you are at it and get some real friends and a real man in your life. Also take a look at the way you let people treat you- your are very young now and the sooner your change your ways the more heartache you will save in the future.
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