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*azzy2292
writes:I think I'm obsessed with my best friend! I loved him before I became obsessed with him so unlike most people that are obsessed with people I can't physically harm him in anyway. But anyway we've been friends for years and one day we both decided to come out and admit that we should've went together back wen we first met. But both of us were dating other people at the time so we didn't. So we decided to try to pursue a relationship by just hanging out to see how it felt and as the relationship progressed he just decided he didn't wanna be with me and his reason is because he says it would be weird to be in a relationship with his bestfriend! So now I'm just left with this feeling that I have. I don't understand how he just turns his feelings on and off the way he does. And now its like I have to talk to him everyday or I start having this strange feeling like I'm having a break down or a withdrawal like I'm a drug addict or something! He's the only person that really gets me through my day and I tried talking to him about it but it hard for me so can someone please help me I feel like I'm goin crazy!
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reader, TimmD +, writes (23 October 2010):
 Writing things down is a good idea.
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reader, jazzy2292 +, writes (22 October 2010):
jazzy2292 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've tried tellin him how I really feel but it just be so much going on in my mind that I can't get it all out! No I don't want him to start dating someone else and I don't wanna miss out on my chance to be with him because he's the only person I'm actually attracted to! No one else even intrest me! A lot of people try to talk to me but they just annoy me because there not him! So maybe I should just sit down and write it all down because talking about it with him it always seems to come out wrong!
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reader, TimmD +, writes (22 October 2010):
I think you just need to tell him the truth. Tell him exactly how much you want to be more than just friends and that you can't stop thinking about him. My guess is that so far you haven't come right out and said it, you've just been trying to see what the other person is thinking.... then you agree with it. He might be doing the same thing.
Either way your relationship is to a point where something needs to change. If you continue this way it is going to put a strain on your relationship and make things worse.
Tell him the truth. Don't hold back. If you do you might miss your chance and he could start dating somebody else again. Would you like that to happen?
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