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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and are all geared up to tie the knot in a couple of months.We are completely in love,and have not been with anyone else ever.Yet everytime we have sex I am unable to enjoy it.The first time was understandable due to the pain but it keeps happening..I do get wet but am unable to enjoy..Help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, WhateverMovesThee  +, writes (23 October 2010):
 Check out the books "The Joy of Sex" and "Kama Sutra." It can take a while for you to learn what your body likes. Don't be afraid to try certain things. Tell your fiance what feels good-it's a turn on and will for sure help him remember what you like. For a lot of woman, being on top helps them control and achieve their pleasure more. The spooning position also helps strike sensitive nerves which produce pleasure...try different lubricants, different condoms. Some are made to especially help with female pleasure. If you're shy, you can browse and buy via the internet. Prolong the foreplay, kiss longer, touch more, explore different places...you can put your man's hands where you want to be touched ;) Best of luck!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (23 October 2010):
 So you lost your virginity to each other? Well since you're new to sex, you don't know what you like yet..Try experimenting with foreplay before sex to get you more in the mood and juices flowing. Look into his eyes, kiss passionately, nibble on his neck and ears. Try different positions, such as doggy style, missionary but with your legs resting on his shoulders, him leaning forward, spooning position turn more towards him and wrap your leg around his and have him or even you stimulate your clitoris. You can even go to the local sex shops, and ask what they recommend. You gotta enjoy sex before you get married.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): Get counseling to help you, let him know, and work on it. It will come with time.
Do not get married until you resolve this issue.
This is important.
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