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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I met this really great guy online. Initially I contacted him because he had a very thoughtful profile and it seemed like he had great values. Then we met for our first date, and I found him to be super hot!We've been on three dates so far. The conversation has been amazing, I feel like I'm talking to someone I've known forever He's insisted on paying for everything and the end of every date he makes plans for next one. In between he follows through by phone or email or text. I really like him. Except that.. at the end of the second date he gave me a peck on the lips and at the end of the third, a slightly longer peck on the lips. And that's it. There's really no other physical contact. Although I love it when guys try to take it slow... so many don't, that I'm just getting a little concerned that he's not that into me? Or maybe he just sees me as a friend?
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (23 October 2010):
 hes perfect stop freaking out and worrying...let the man take his time. be nice,friendly...touch his hand when ur in public,hold his waist...but let him do the kissing.
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reader, Shugarr  +, writes (22 October 2010):
I think you should actually appreciate the fact that he is wanting to take things slow...this should even give you the conviction that he is into you and not someone that is just looking out for sexual satisfaction..
He is into you dear...
He just does not want to rush up things...
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reader, TimmD +, writes (22 October 2010):
 I think you may be just looking into it a little too much. Good guys sometimes go a little too far out of their way to treat women with respect and not wanting to go too fast too soon. My guess is that he's just trying to be polite. If he wasn't interested in you he wouldn't be going on more dates with you. Also, it's very rare that one person feels things are going great and the conversations are amazing while the other does not.
Sometimes with "good" guys women need to be a little more aggressive. I'm not saying rip off his clothes and go to town or anything... but if you want a longer kiss - give him a longer kiss. Make him know you are interested in him.
He may be having the same doubts you are on whether or not you like him that much.
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