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writes:I have a big problem. I started a casual relationship with a couple. They contacted me about having a possible three-way. They've been together for eight years and they have never had anyone new in the relationship at all and had never done a three way. Well we ended up becoming good friends and have hung out on multiple occasions without having sex. We have had sex together three times now. Tonight was the third time but this time something went wrong--or right. I ended up making a deeper connection with one of them. During our time together we ended up holding hands, looking into each other's eyes, etc. It ended up becoming very intimate rather than erotic. The other guy was still involved but it was very apparent at least to me that there were feelings evolving. I think i've somehow ended up falling in love with one of them and have no idea what to do! I know the best thing is to just stop seeing them all-together to keep anyone from getting hurt but now i've fallen in love with one of them and can't stand to think about not seeing him. On the other hand I can't stand the thought of being the one to break up an 8-year relationship. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010): I agree with the first poster, don't even think about getting involved until the relationship has ended and even then you might want to think long and hard about it. If either of these guys are into threeseomes, then they arent much into being in a monagomous relationship and you may end up with your heart broken. Usually when ppl are in love, they don't cheat, nor do they want to share the person they are so in love with, with someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2010): this is why 3 ways should remain as a fantasy. Dont go back. If they break up, then and only then should you persue a relationship. Otherwise this is about to get ugly im afraid.
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