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*ones15
writes:i just found out my partner of 2years has been textin his work mate talkin about how he wants to have sex with some of the girls at work he said nothin has happened im reali confused because we have a daughter and i want to do whats best for her aswell as myself
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reader, Sincerely Yours  +, writes (1 July 2010):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/new-baby-but-dont-love-the-father-i.html
That's the question I saw. It was about a year ago, so how have you had this partner for over 2 years?
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reader, jones15 +, writes (30 June 2010):
jones15 is verified as being by the original poster of the question im not emotionally cheating on him at all. and actually i live with out him now and im better off finacially
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (29 June 2010):
Didnt you write the question about how you don't love your husband anymore and you're in love with your ex and don't know what to do but you won't leave because he makes all the money?
You don't have a right to complain when you are emotionally cheating on him, and using him for his money.
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reader, jones15 +, writes (29 June 2010):
jones15 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni found them on his phone he tried to deny it thinkin he had deleted them all but he hadn't. it annoys me also because he's was describing them and wot he wants to do to them etc...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010): If I were his gf and I discovered those texts on his phone, I would be highly upset.....I may even want to end the relationship. It's really hard to trust people when they do dishonest and disrespectful things like that. What most individuals fail to realize is that they are suppose to hold they're gf or bf in high regards whether they are present or not.
Your bf's behavior is embarrassing to say the very least. You are so young....maybe he will change, maybe not. The choice is really yours.
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reader, Myrrh +, writes (25 June 2010):
 Hi. It might just be male banter and he would never act.on it. However, you are his partner and the mother of his child, so that type of conversation is inappropriate. If he loves you, he should have respect for you. If a single friend expresses a wish to have sex with someone, that shouldnt automatically mean your partner has to join in. Ask him if hes happy with you or does he really want to have sex with others. You should be able to gauge his honesty when he replies. Youve not long had his baby. He should be uber attentive at the moment, not picking out other women he would like to sleep with x
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (24 June 2010):
 It is inappropriate for him to have such discussions, but if these conversations are your only cause for concern, I would chalk it up to "male chatter." His friend talks about it and he wants to be one of the guys... doesn't want to be left out.
How did you find out about the conversations? Did you read his text messages or did the friend tell you about it?
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