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writes:Hi, I'm in a very confusing situation at the moment. I have been seeing my boyfriend for nearly two years but the spark has gone and it has got to the point where neither of us will break up with the other one, but lately I have been wanting to break up with him as I have strong feelings for someone else. If only it were that simple. This person is also in a relationship, with one of my friends! But feels the same way for me. We have been texting and I'm going on holiday in a couple of days so we've decided to wait until I get back off holiday to see if our feelings have changed although I dont think mine will. Please help, Im losing sleep over it and my mind is constantly thinking about her. I dont know what to do
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reader, carolsexybitch  +, writes (24 June 2010):
 How can you do thing with your boyfriend who spend two year with you?The spark has not gone anywere its there u need to work on thatMight b You have talked yourself into thinking and you r giving the name of feelingMight be you want him more than as friend but actual things is he see you as friend because he has already a girl friendU want a breakup with your first relationship along with that you are going to break your friendship ?Happy breakup dayI bet later on you will Regret on your decision.Take your own sweet time before u go for breakup day
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 June 2010):
First of all, end it with your boyfriend. You're already texting another guy, and it's grossly unfair on your boyfriend to be setting yourself up with someone else while he sits there twiddling his thumbs thinking it's all okay. You now know for sure that your boyfriend is not the one, and to retain your dignity and your reputation, end it now with him before he finds out you've been texting this other guy.
As for the other guy, be wary. He's still with this girl who is one of your friends. That spells disaster. Men are great at playing women to get what they want. You only have to read some of the posts on here to see how many women have fallen for a taken men only to be used and dumped. Also, there is the friendship with your friend to consider. Are you willing to throw away your friendship with her for the sake of this guy? Because if you do, you won't be popular.
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