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How do I ask him if he has sexual difficulties without offending..? or should I let it slide?

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Question - (24 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2010)
A female Australia age , anonymous writes:

Hi Maybe someone can tell me if there is a problem here.

My boyfriend doesn"t cum when we have intercourse but he comes when i give him a hand job.he always loves me to cum while we are having sex and i do' but i don't understand why he doesn't.

I am wondering if he has some sort of a problem and how and if i should go about asking him without offending him.He always enjoys the sex we have but i would love him to cum same as i do not always having to give him a hand job after it.we are both in our 60's.but i wonder if he has some issue or not 'and if i should just leave it be.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010):

To Caring Guy thank u, you sound like a caring kind of person as i have read some of your other replys to questions so once again thanks. to anonymous you are an idiot if you can't say anything constructive please keep your stupidity to yourself. thanks

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2010):

I think he might be worried about getting you pregnant.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (24 June 2010):

At is age, let's just say that 'things' won't be as sensitive as they once were. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak, as has been said. You'll find that he's having a great time, and in all truth is very healthy. But a man's penis does tend to become less sensitive as he gets older. Also, if you're giving him hand jobs all the time, then stop those and focus on other foreplay. That might bring some sensitivity back to him.

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