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writes:to begin with, please ignore my age, i messed it up when i signup online. i am really 21.i dated a guy for 2 years and im 6 months pregnant by him. he left me when i told him.1. he never regrets anything or feels guilty about the bad stuff he does.2. during our relatonship he would make me cry and would hardly say sorry and sometimes he would do an emotional fake act of compassion.3. one day he told me he had no feelings- no empathy or love or excitement or sadness and had been going to therapy on and off for 12 years.4. he enjoys putting me down and lifting me up again just to throw me back down. very emotionally abusive, a liar, about EVERYTHING. he would dump me and lie his way back to me again.5. when i told him about the baby... he said he didnt love me anymore but only 2 weeks before he said he had never loved someone so much. no he says he never felt love for me.6. his eyes are empty... like there is no feeling, no soul.7. he likes tv shows with cold characters like dr. house, dexter and dr. troy. he enjoys playing killing games.8. he is charming and lovely, people think he is a good man, but he is very cruel, he threw me to the ground, pregnant with his child and put his family against me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice. im def. not putting him on the birth certificate and not putting his last name on my baby!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): Please do one thing for your unborn child and do not put him on the birth certificate.
If he is on the birth certificate he has a lot of say in what your child can do etc. He will also make a big show of being a good Dad, but my use this to control you.
Be wise and not romantic when you come to this very important thing for your baby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiongood to know :o
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionam i crazy? did i actually stalk him? is it considered stalking him if i would contact him and sometimes he would push me away but other times he would say he loved me??
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010): Don't feel pathetic, it's how they play us, they know what buttons to press so in the end we don't know which way to turn, be happy that you are away from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni would like to add that he was very addictive, he made everything seem dreamy and passionate and great and everytime he left me i was devastated, i always ended up looking for him in no time, i loved him and he knew i would never leave him or cheat on him so he would act uninterested but suddenly he would contact me or say he missed me. he made his friends and family think i was stalking him because one day we were fighting and he hung up on me and i left alot of missed calls, he (a 26 year old) showed his father his phone with all my missed calls and told him i was stalikng him. the next day he texted me asking how i was. i was shattered, it would hurt me when he wouldnt answer his phone, ofcourse, because it made me feel guilty and i was always begging forgiveness. now i feel pathetic
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010): I am very glad to hear that he is you ex make sure he stays that way. My first husband was just as your describe, he had the world and me fooled, everyone thought he was a wonderful man, no one had a bad word to say against him,he a smile for everyone, he would close the door and he face would change. That was over 20 years ago and just thinking about it still gives me the shivers. You and your baby had a lucky escape, you have made the right decision.
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reader, ctds001  +, writes (24 June 2010):
Hey Honey,
Now you know he is, what are you going to do to protect your innocent baby from him?
What if he comes begging you back, would you take him back if he has the right excuses/ lies.
Start thinking what is best for you and your baby and make plans now!
Good luck x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 June 2010):
Yes, he is. When I read your post the word 'psychopath' screamed at me. He's obviously in a little world of his own, and if he's willing to throw you to the ground while you're pregnant, then it might be worth talking to a lawyer and blocking access to the child or something.
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