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*t-7
writes:Okay well my bf nd I have been together for 3yrs...Within one of the yrs he cheated on me with this girl from where he lives..But I cheated on him within that time too...Well he had jus added her as a friend on myspace...When I seen it I flip out..I told him I suggest he delete her nd I'm not palyin...Is that taking it to far?
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reader, Tt-7 +, writes (25 June 2010):
Tt-7 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well he did as I told him to..No questions asked nd nnothin said....So all in all it worked out better then I thought it would be...He deleted her...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2010): I agree with CaringGuy, you guys should just end this "toxic" relationship. He cheated on you, you cheated on him, now your worried he's going to continue cheating on you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 June 2010):
You're not being unreasonable. Unless he deletes her, you'll have to get rid of him because it would be clear that he's not interested in working this mess out. But to be honest, if you've both cheated and he's added her, you need to ask yourself where this is going anyway. Why did you both cheat on each other? And why are you still together if you did? Maybe the time has come to move on unless he does this and you two can sort this out.
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reader, Blue Sahara +, writes (24 June 2010):
 No that isn't unreasonable.
When there is an affair, there is a breaking of trust. The only way a relationship can survive and be healthy is building the trust back. How can you do that if either of you keeps in contact with the person you cheated with?
There are only 2 people in a relationship and you guys made it 4 people. You need to both try your hardest to keep it at 2 again at all costs.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (24 June 2010):
 No I don't think it's totally unreasonable of you to want him to cut off contact with someone he cheated with, for the sake of moving on. That said, you say you cheated too. Have you given up ALL contact with him? If you have, then yes, it's fair to ask him to do the same.
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