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*nsrchof
writes:It probably has been answered already, but what is the real hang up on women not wanting to swallow a man's ejaculation. Taste? Contents? Etc. Also, if you are going to let them cum in your mouth, what's the difference? Men go down on women and swallow there fluids. I've never heard of a man who got up to spit....lol! Is it psychological?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (14 August 2010):
 It's a question as old as I am...some do some don't personally, I'll go down on her afterwards to clean-up and it's not so bad...just part of messy fun sex.
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reader, maxxie +, writes (26 June 2010):
 i have only ever swallowed for one guy in my life. i loved him to death. his cum didnt taste lovely but it was his so i would gladly swallow. he never even asked me to! all the other guys i gave bjs to, i asked them not to cum in my mouth... the taste is NASTY.
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reader, Becca64  +, writes (24 June 2010):
 from personal experience... when i swallow i actually feel ill. Last time i did I felt really sick and actuall went to bed! I told him i would only let him do it in my mouth every now and then. im not saying never, he can still have it as a birthday present ;)
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reader, carebare  +, writes (24 June 2010):
The taste is not that great. And the texture is what really gets me. It's like trying to swallow raw egg whites... lol
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reader, yowie  +, writes (24 June 2010):
 for some of us, our tummies will accept it, but our intestines do not. Exploding gastric while enjoying sex is not acceptable to the majority of people ;)
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reader, xanthic +, writes (24 June 2010):
 It's unpleasant, period. Women not only taste completely different, but also don't produce quite as much 'fluid' as men. There's also the fact that with women it's gradual, and with men it's quite a lot all at once.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 June 2010):
 Miamine, you've made an excellent point! Many men feel rejected if you don't swallow, so try not to make too big a deal about it.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (24 June 2010):
 Oh and ladies, the correct technique (according to Mrs Miaminemanners) for removing semen from the mouth is to either,
a) Spit it out on partner's belly or back and rub it in.. best to try to smile at same time. Then it won't look like you hate his gift, it will instead look like you is sharing.
b) Spit it out DELICATELY onto edge of sheet, or tissue or hanky previously prepared. Think "removal of food from mouth when eating in front of queen" and not "ah, yukkkkk, disgusting, feel like I'm going to vomit"
Please have some class, men have feelings, so if you choose not to swallow, please don't leave him feeling rejected.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 June 2010):
SY, I missed your very succinct, and to the point answer. Well said.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2010): Personally i love to swallow just cause i learn to do it that way and i have come to enjoy it. If u want it to make it better,in my experiance if the guy eats pineapple or drink pineapple juice it tastes pretty sweet. Sometimes if u keep drinking it i found its as sweet as candy :)
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 June 2010):
One more thing, I'm in the 'swallows' category, in case you're wondering. It's just that I have some imagination and know what it's like to not want to swallow.
Cut the ladies a break, gents. If she's giving you the gift of a bj, don't scorn her for not wanting to swallow. That's just plain mean.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (24 June 2010):
"I'll have what she's having"... (When Harry Met Sally)
"mmmmm... I've gone off me food".. (When Miamine Met Tisha)
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 June 2010):
I don't think women have protruberances large enough to hit the gag reflex over and over again.
So imagine that you have a large object--not a woman's genitalia, more like a warm sea cucumber--that you have to avoid hitting with your teeth at all costs, for 10, 20, 30? minutes.
You have a gag reflex in the back of your throat, you take pains to keep the cucumber from hitting it, but it's just not possible to give a decent bj and keep the cucumber entirely in the front of the mouth.
So there's the cucumber.
And here's your gag reflex.
[You can follow me by doing this in your own mouth with your finger. Or a small cucumber.]
Now take the cucumber, and give it a bj. Remember the cucumber is going to want rhythmic thrusting at some point, for some sustained period of time.
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[Oh, forgot to mention that you have preloaded a squirt bottle like chefs use with a warm semen equivalent.]
So after a few minutes of this, your gag reflex might be quite sensitive. Some manage to get past this, some don't have a gag reflex, some have a very sensitive one.
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Increase speed, as the cucumber gets more excited. Technique slips a little, the gag reflex gets engaged a bit more as thrusts deepen.
cucumber in, glances off the gag reflex, cucumber out
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cucumber in, glances off the gag reflex, cucumber out
cucumber in, glances off the gag reflex, cucumber out
Cucumber is now ready for discharge, take that prepped squeeze bottle and aim it at the back of the throat and squeeze out the warm, gloopy, salty contents, right at the infamous gag reflex.
Hm. I wonder what might happen. Perhaps, something gaggy?
Does that sound psychological? Or perhaps physiological?
This is a very individual question. Some women may not like the taste, they may not like the feel.
Why not simply respect their personal and individual preferences and choices, without labeling it as a hang-up?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (24 June 2010):
 Miamine, funny you should say that, a lot of it tastes like rotten asparagus! LOL.
And I agree with Sincerely Yours. Tasting a bit from your hand is very different than having it squirted into your mouth.
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (24 June 2010):
 Kissing someone while it's in her mouth is NOT the same as getting the bullet straight out the gun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2010): For what it's worth, I've swallowed mine more than once. Don't love the texture, but there isn't much taste.
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reader, insrchof +, writes (24 June 2010):
insrchof is verified as being by the original poster of the question Actually, I have no problem with my own. I will french kiss a girl who still has it in her mouth. It's mine. I can't expect her to swallow it if I didn't know what it was like. I'm not into guys, so I can only speak of my own. I never said they had to, I just wanted to know your opinions.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (24 June 2010):
"but what is the real hang up on women not wanting to swallow?" (insrchof)
It's not a "hang up", some people like asparagus, some people don't.. best way for you to see what we mean is to swallow a mouthfull of cum yourself.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (24 June 2010):
Taste mostly, but also can be psychological, many women are taught that it is nasty, as urine comes from that part of the body...
But mostly taste... it aint strawberry ice-cream to tell the truth...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2010): I personally have no issue with it.
If a man keeps to a diet that avoids pungent food and includes lots of citrus and water, it improves the taste. I also try to keep to a certain technique that cuts down on the "yucky" texture factor. This involves letting him cum as far back in my mouth as possible so that it avoids most of my tongue and slides right down the hatch. But this may not work for every woman. Now, if I do happen to taste it, I just try to convince myself that I just got a serving of salty egg whites! Mind over matter.
I suppose some women also have psychological reasons for not swallowing, but I like to know that my man is happy. His overall happiness trumps my momentary discomfort.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (24 June 2010):
Women hardly have the same amount of fluid. Most guys do excuse themselves briefly to wipe off (it's just good manners cause I personally don't want to taste myself). Plus with most guys it tastes REALLY bad. A lot of girls won't let the guy finish in their mouths. Have you ever tasted that stuff? It's pretty nasty. And it's goopy and globby and smelly. It's like trying to swallow really sticky mucus, but it tastes awful and makes you gag a little. It sometimes kind of coats your throat too and you can't get the taste out and you can just feel it. You can't make a woman swallow and if you try she'll resent you. There's nothing that kills the mood quite like stinky sticky stuff all down your throat and mouth. Swallowing is a personal preference and has nothing to do with her feelings for you.
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (24 June 2010):
Lol.
Men's come out at the end in huge globs. For some women, this slides down like mucus, right onto the gag reflux. For some, it's way salty like damn sea water, plus has the consistencey of mucus. Some might be germophobes and can't bare the thought of swallowing someone else's penis glob. Whatever the reason, it's not laziness or spite, so just accept and respect it.
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