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writes:Hey everyone, I'd like to know how people think about this topic: sex lol I recently lost my virginity to a man I thought I loved but, we're going nowhere so I walked away...I met another man (fake name Jay) and both times we've seen each other, the kissing was intense. He told me he's crazy attracted to me but doesn't want to take advantage of me. I couldn't sleep after all that kissing, I wanted him like crazy even though I don't feel a lot of mental/emotional chemistry. So guys, how long to wait before doing anything? I have no idea how this works. Should I even go for it? I kept thinking of my first lover while kissing Jay...aargh! So don't know what to do. Never had an orgasm and I have a feeling that Jay wouldn't be a selfish lover. He's gentle...I want to experience gentleness for once. Help....? Please?
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reader, england_rock_chic  +, writes (24 June 2010):
well...
wait until you're ready. I'm sure Jay would understand if he is a caring person.
You were prob thinking of your ex whilst kissing Jay because he was the first relationship you've had since your ex.
Try to push your ex to the back of your mind :)
And dont worry, Jay should understand if ya not ready. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2010): In my experience sexual gratification is usually not worth it when it is just for the sake of it. Don't mean to scare you but you put alot of things at risk when you sleep with a man. At risk for std's, getting pregnant, getting a reputation, (you never know who Jay might know, maybe he is buddies with the future love of your life in which case you are going to wish you hadn't hooked up with Jay, who you don't even truly like anyways.)
I don't know, when it comes to sex I think one should be picky, if you can help it.
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