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writes:I ask this a lot and I never get many results but I really need to know what to do about this. There's this girl, we'll call her Carly. I'm really in love with Carly. I see her almost everyday. I hang out with Carly, her brother, and one of her cousins. Carly is one of those people that can really make you mad without saying a word. I get mad at her all the time for different reason. The four of us go to the movies all the time and the whole damn time she's texting. Her phone is her life for some stupid reason, she gets in trouble all the time and her parents take her phone away and she crys and crys, and then she screams all becaus of her phone. But there are good times too. When she's happy and when she looks at me and smiles, that's when I get that feeling inside. She does make me mad, and she makes me mad a whole lot more often than she makes me happy, but I always know it's worth it. The problem is I don't think she feels the same about me as I do about her. She doesn't know that I like her and even if she did she would probably think that I just wanna get in her pants, but that's not it at all. I do have to admit that she really is a good looking girl though, I think she could turn a gay man strait, not even close to kidding. Anyhow I really do like her and I wanna tell her how I feel. It's killing me not telling her, I mean sometimes It hurts, I mean it really hurts bad inside. So what I guess I wanna know is should I tell her how I feel.
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reader, Annonymous777 +, writes (24 June 2010):
You just have to work up the courage i guess. Just tell her that you want to let her know you have ffelings for her and if she doesn't feel them back then let her know your okay with that and will not further complicate things between your friendship. Sher may develope them for you once she knows how you feel or she may feel akward around you. You have to let her know that by her not feeling the same way, you wont let it change your relationship. But you have to tell her because if you dont you may regret it. Also: if your friendship is already a rollercoaster with you getting mad at her al the time, it will most likely get worse if your more involved with eachother like you would be in a relationship. You would want a healthy relationship that makes you happy WAYYYYYYY more than it makes you mad. So you may want to resolve some issues before you cross over into relationship territory
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