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writes:Ok, here is the story. My buddy has been in a long distance relationship for about 2 years with a girl from different state and he has never meet her. In total the distance is 700 miles!!! She is 15 and he is now 19. At first i thought he was nuts and it would never work out but, although they have openly admitting to cheated on each other they still talk. He would always talk about how one day he would meet her and eventually marry her. I thought her was insane and it will all pass by him but he said he was going to go up there and meet her. I told him the only way he is doing that is if I come and watch over you.Now here is the kicker. Her friend caught a pic of me about 6 months ago and was very interested. He was talking to his "lover's" friend and he gave her my number. At first i though it was a big joke. I just went with it but saw her picture and was attracted. So we texted and talked numerous times. After about 3 months I got sucked in the same trap. We talk about everything to each other (personal stuff to) and i enjoy talking to her. We committed to a no sex til we meet each other bond. And I know I keep my end of the bargain, and according to her so has she. But to be honest I do not care because we are so far away it wouldnt matter to me, its something your body tells you to do not your heart.Anyway, summer is coming up and my buddy doesn't have the money to go, and he doesn't care about her as much. He is to busy with other girls, but openly admits that they are just "sex buddies". He does not have the money to hold his end of the trip and he does not care if he goes but wants to. But I do have the money and i almost forgot why I am going. At first I told myself i gotta watch over him and if i get pussy while im doing it bonus. Now I feel like i just have to go, just to meet her.She tells me all the time how when she graduates high school (note here is our ages Im going to be 21 and her 17) she is moving down here. I have too much respect to just have sex with her and move on and besides the age scares her (and me too!!!). The thing is we both told each other we have been cheated on before and we would both not talk to each other again if it happened. We are not in a relationship but its seems like it. We both agreed until we meet, we cannot fully trust each ohter.I have a job that pays well, and my buddy is unemployed. She is a small town girl who hates being there. I have the money to go on a road trip and want to go. Am i nuts????? Is it worth the pain of one day having her hurt me before she can move? Will we fade apart if we meet other people? Am i foolish, desperate or crazy for going????ps my job allows me tons of insight on people and I know she really does exist. I reversed phone searched her house and know that she lives there. We have wrote to each other and have seen school pics of her and she does go to that school. We are meeting in a public area for both our protections.
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reader, Don1991 +, writes (26 June 2010):
Don1991 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno im not going to have sex with her, i don't even know her like that yet.
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