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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok, me and my boyfriend of 14 months are very shakey at the moment. We're constantly arguing and hardly talking!Secondly my best friend is no longer talking to me because she got involved with a drug dealer and i told her dad for her own safety! I cant take the rejection from both of the closest people to me, I have been drunk non stop the past 5 days to get over it. i have had alot of male attention lately lately, they're constantly texting and calling me. Over the past weekend i ended up sleeping with half of them as soon as they ask. That half havent spoken to me since. Am i easy?? I'm completely ashamed and i cant seem to control myself. Im feeling low as ever!
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reader, ctds001  +, writes (25 June 2010):
Hey HoneyYou need to stop the drinking, put Do Not answer for all the men names you have put in your phone that you have been flirting with.Contact your friend and let her know however she feels about you, you will always be here for her. This will leave the door open for when she finally calms down.Your relationship has to go on the back burner and tell your boyfriend you need space. Sort yourself out and then reasses your relationship.Keep us updated - Good Luck x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 June 2010):
With your esteem as low as it is, you've opened yourself up to ever guy who wants to use a woman. And you've been played. Every one of those guys knew that you were open to being used, and you went for it. You can control yourself if you want to. But I'm not so sure you want to right now. Get rid of all those numbers, get rid of those men, get rid of your boyfriend and get back to basics and focus on yourself. Your relationship with your boyfriend is meaningless now. Because either you have to lie, in which case there is a massive chance he will find out, or you have to tell him in which case it will end it. So end it now, and focus on your own life. As for your friend. Well, you did the right thing and the price is right now she's mad. Let her stew and do her own thing. But let your boyfriend go. There isn't really a way that you can fix this after the weekend. Because you will either lie and be found out, or you'll tell him and he'll dump you.
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