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writes:*OP's Original Title*I'm just curious because I always took it as being nice, but now that I've graduated my friends keep telling me that he always had a bit more of a "soft spot" for me than any other student... oh, and I've been really close with him for all of high school..-I was sitting in my desk one time and instead of telling me to move it, he came over and picked it up while I was still in it and moved it (my face was right at his crotch.. awkward)-Whenever he had a free period, he always would come to the class I was in just to "check up" -He would blush when somebody said I was "in love" with my ex-boyfriend, and told me that I should break up with him because he wasn't "right" for me-He asked if he should write a song with my name in it because he could-One time I walked by him on my way into his classroom for class and he swung his keys (intentionally, I saw..) so they'd hit my bottom..-Whenever I played a game for my sport, he'd come out and watch and then tell me how amazing I am at it..-When I broke up with my boyfriend he would always ask if there was somebody else-He's randomly text me inside jokes (he had my number for school club reasons)-Whenever he sees me, he'll come up to me and talk to me, even if he goes "oh i forgot what I was going to say.."-I see him just watch me sometimes-He tends to point out problems to me about my other favorite teachers..-When we were on a senior trip, I was sitting by myself outside of a restroom waiting for my friends and he came and sat next to me really closely and just would talk to me..-He bragged to me about a lady flirting with him-He shares his personal life with me and his past experiences-Now that I've graduated, he tells me to come back and see him more before I leave for college -He told me that I was one of his most favorite students ever and that our relationship means more to him than I could ever know..Oh, I'm 18 and he's 28.I always just saw him as being friendly because I really respect him and he was my favorite.. he also helped me through some tough times. I mean I'm not trying to "flatter myself" but now it's got me wondering... Please don't mock me, I'm just wondering, thanks..
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2010): Hey there
It certainly does sound like he had feelings for you, must have had a soft spot :) From what you've said it looks like he truly did have feelings for you aspecially the whole " Our relationship means more to him than I could ever know" clearly! That was a hint. Well I think so anyway.
He's respectful since he didn't act on anything, or admit it to you literally or physically. If you have feelings for him maybe just go have a chat with him for a bit, if you want it to go anywhere because it definetely seems like he likes you.
If you want to just keep it as friends then just keep it as friends, but visit him :) it would be sad to lose that friendship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2010): Yep, he's a creeper alrighty... either that or he's gay.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 June 2010):
He may have done. There are signs that he did. But he realized it was going nowhere and didn't say anything. So no one will ever be able to tell you for sure. He could have just been very friendly, but he could have liked you.
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