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*rissy07
writes:What do you do when your husband is with his friends every day even when we go out as a family their with us? how do i handle this? should i get upset because it's normal or should i just let them go every where and just take my daugther and go? I don't hang out with my friends because on the day that i work i run to the sitter to get my daugther to take her home. on the days i'm home friday is always chores all day then weekends it with him and his friends and monday i try to dedicate to my daughter. where does that leave time for me. his friend lives upstairs from our apartment, also they work together. every day the come home there sitting outside, just monday i notice they sat for two hours didn't even ask me if i wanted him to get me a chair to sit with them. today i wasstuck at the train station for thirty minutes tried calling him no answer, i walk 30 blocks just to clear my mind, went to pickup my daugter got home 8:30 he never called to see if we were ok, when i got home he was sitting outside with his friend until 9:30pm i was very upset when i tried telling him if this doesn't change i'm going to need to go out with my friends while he goes with his he started saying i have a problem with everything.i dont no what to do i tired. wht do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 June 2010):
I think it's time you talked to him again and let out your resentment in a clearer way. He's basically treating you like a second class citizen here. And if nothing changes, then maybe it's time you looked carefully at your marriage, He needs to get his act into gear here.
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