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Going commando?

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Question - (24 June 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 July 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey, 25 y.o. straight male here...

A strange question really. Hope you can help! Over the years I have found that going commando (wearing no underwear) in jeans is a real turn-on, for both myself and in women. I love the thought that that sexy woman I see dancing in a club, walking in the street or sitting on the train, etc, may be commando.

I love the freedom of being commando myself, but I find I get turned on and this frequently results in erections. I wear tight(ish) jeans and prefer the feeling of not having anything on underneath them. I'm aware I need to wash them every day but I'm prepared to do that.

I have been out with no underwear on, but for no real length of time or I end up in a mess, so to speak...

Has anyone overcome this problem? If so, how?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010):

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Hello and thanks for your replies people! I see some amusing ideas, LOL! For all of your information, I have considered the possibility of injury, and for that reason I mainly wear jeans with a button fly, or if I do have a zip, I make sure nothing is in its path when it's being fastened!

Yes, it is a fetish. I admit I am trying to get out of it but I do actually find being commando more comfortable. Weird huh? My only problem is spontaneous erections! It feels like being 12 all over again!

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (6 July 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony auntYou seem to have what is known as a fetish, my friend. Daniel is right! You're going to hurt your junk if you're not careful. Tisha's idea is good too... or you could take your jeans to an alteration place and have the zipper replaced with a line of buttons. They're gonna wonder... but that beats the hell out of a bad zipper accident.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (25 June 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntIt appears you have found the reason that underwear was created.

Sew in some buttons inside the jeans, about handkerchief corner width apart over the zipper area. Create some buttonholes on a handkerchief. Button handkerchief inside jeans when going out. You may wish to make a number of handkerchief with buttonholes in them. Problem solved.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (25 June 2010):

Danielepew agony auntI haven't overcome this, because I have never gone commando. The simple thought of hurting the family's Jewels and Hope for The Future with that zipper keeps me from doing it. Have you considered that possibility? I hear it really hurts.

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