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writes:Hello my question is pretty simple.I have a friend and all my friends from the way hes behaved are sure he likes me. The thing is he doesnt speak to me much, sometimes he will and others he wont so they cant tell whether hes generally shy or not. But he is rather quiet with me. Its just the way he is thats made them sure he wants me, i wont go into it. But even when i try and speak to him online its just me doing the talking and when we meet alone he will talk to me obviously because its just us 2 but hes rather quiet. Hes fine with everyone else, but the bottom line is...if he really liked me as much as people reckon he does, wouldnt he speak to me? Even when i make the effort wouldnt he make abit more effort back?
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (25 June 2010):
 What's wrong with quiet? Why would you want to go yourt with a raging party outrageous lunatic? That could be totally tiring and exhausting!
He's probably just a little more mature than others and is just taking things slowly.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 June 2010):
Don't underestimate how shy men can be. He sounds very shy. The fact he can act normally with everyone else but is a bit quiet around you proves it. If you like him, you need to open him up a bite more here and there. Have patience and just continue to talk to him and see where it leads..
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